Question by Moi: Body image & self esteem crushed plus no sex at all?
Everybody used to say I was too thin. I got laid off & started gaining weight from not being so active & then I got breast implants (gift from my fiance) and please don't ask why because I don't even know why I did it. Since the surgery I've been putting on weight & I think I've gained about 20 or 25 lbs but I won't get on the scale. That coupled with the huge boobs that I hate & the scars is just destroying me. I'm no longer thin & now I have massive boobs.
My fiance & I rarely have sex. Maybe once every 4 months or so. He says he's never been a sexual person & it has ruined his past relationships. I always had to initiate sex. Now that I've gained weight & have scars from the surgery I don't want to have sex with him either. I was the only one keeping it alive & now I'm not trying.
We're not even married yet & I feel like an undesirable pig. Actually I felt undesirable before b/c he never wants to have sex & my past relationships were practically based on it. Thoughts?
I do take care of myself. I put makeup on every day, do my hair, wear my heels even around the house. I'm 5'5" & I was about 110 lbs before I started gaining & I was a size A cup. Now I'm a 36C and at LEAST 20 lbs heavier. I feel completely disconnected from my body. Like it's not mine. I used to be a skinny chick with no boobs & this is totally screwing with my head. Maybe because we didn't have sex & both of his exes had implants, I thought that we'd have more sex or he would be more attracted to me & that's not the case. The lack of sex is exactly the same. I feel like he's my best friend not my fiance.
Best answer:
Answer by Mr. John
You're messed up. You need to get into counseling, learn to love yourself and to heck with your loser boyfriend. You can't have a good relationship with anyone until you love yourself first - get help!
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